Actually scare to read newspaper these days....Looking at the pictures..
How much can you hold yourself if your beloved one left unfound, missing, or worst case dead? If you get all of your family dead and left over you alone in this world....What if your promise to them yet to realized ?
What if their promise to you yet to be implemented ?
Can you just hold the promise till next life ?
I don't know how to answer these...perhaps you too...
Love yourself by loving them , love them by loving yourself.